When the hype fails you | books I didn’t end up loving

In the bookish community, we’re well aware of the dangers of the hype train. It’s incredibly exciting to see people anticipate a book’s release, or to hear all your favorite bloggers and vloggers talk about the same book. It peaks your interest in the book too, and might lead to you discovering a new favorite novel. Some of my favorite books are ones I never would have picked up without a little push from the online community.

However, there are downsides to hyped books as well. We’ve all picked up a book everyone raves about, and ended up disappointed because it just didn’t read our high expectations. Can you really blame us for expecting the best, though? When it seems like every person you know has given a certain book a 4- or 5-star rating, you expect to fall in love with it as well. It’s those high expectations that do us in, people. The book might be good, but we were expecting something great.

Today, I’m talking about some books that disappointed me. These may not be bad books, but I just didn’t end up loving them as much as I was hoping or expecting to.


The Woman in the Window by A.J. Finn
This is a very recent read for me. I picked it up after seeing it was one of the nominees for the Goodreads Choice Awards in the mystery and thriller category, which is one of the genres I want to read more of. I somehow find it really hard to be truly captivated and thrilled by mystery/thriller books, and this was no exception. It wasn’t necessarily boring, but I was just annoyed with the main character throughout the majority of the book. She kept saying that she needed to prove that she was right, and that she would figure it out on her own, while downing bottles of wine and abusing medication at the same time. “I need to keep a clear mind! This bottle of wine will help.” Yeah, sure.

An Ember in the Ashes (Ember in the Ashes #1) by Sabaa Tahir
An Ember in the Ashes is such a hyped book! I find that YA novels, especially YA fantasy, are very susceptible to the hype train in the online bookish community. When this first released, everyone kept raving about it. They adored the Roman Empire-inspired world, the brutality, and the romance in this novel, and it popped up in quite a few favorite books of the year lists. I finally read it in 2018, and was quite disappointed. I did love the world and the brutality, but was not a fan of the ratio of action and romance. The romance took over here, and I was not on board with it.


The Girls by Emma Cline
I think this was a case of misunderstanding what the novel is actually about. When this released, so many people were talking about it. It was a historical fiction about a girl who got involved in a cult – like the Manson family. I’ve always been fascinated by cults (don’t judge me), and that synopsis really sold me on this book. However, I believe this novel is more of a coming-of-age story that involves a cult. The actual Manson family stuff doesn’t come in until 70% of the way through, and I was very uncomfortable with the focus on sex this book had since the main character was only around 14. I understand that may have been (historically) accurate, but it made me uneasy either way.

The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins
For a while in 2017, this book was everywhere. It was one of the most read thrillers, not to mention the amount of times the trailer for the movie was shoved down my throat. I finally decided to read it when I saw a copy at my local library. Wow, am I glad I borrowed it from the library instead of buying it. This book was so utterly boring. Just like The Woman in the Window it features a female protagonist who is only unreliable because she’s an alcoholic.


The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
Classics are probably some of the most hyped books, as generations of people have loved them. I haven’t read many English/American classics because I grew up in Belgium where they obviously aren’t required reading. When I first wanted to give them a try, I figured I’d start with The Great Gatsby. It’s a very short book so I thought it would be a somewhat easy read. Boy, was I wrong. It took me 3 days to read about 140 pages because this book is so utterly boring. Nothing happens! At all.

Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur
At this point in time, Milk and Honey has received some mixed reviews. When it was first released, however, everyone loved it. I haven’t read much poetry because I always feel like it goes way over my head, but I do want to broaden my reading horizon and include more poetry works in that. Why not start with one of the most popular collections right now? Sadly, this book didn’t work for me. I didn’t connect with the poems, and I guess I’m not a fan of the incredibly short poems that are just one sentence. Nothing against this style of poetry – we all like different things – but I didn’t love it.


Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro
Like The Great Gatsby, this book seems to be universally loved. People adore the novel, and they adore the movie adaptation of it. All of the praise it has received made me pick it up and try it for myself. To be honest, I thought this was just okay. I don’t really understand why everyone loves this book so much? If this is one of your favorite books, please message me on Twitter or email me so we can talk about this! I simply don’t understand.

Harry Potter and the Cursed Child by John Tiffany & Jack Thorne
We’re going out with a banger. Oh, this book… Or should I say, this play? Before everyone comes at me, I know this is a play and that it wasn’t written by J.K. Rowling. I also knew that before starting it. That still doesn’t make this a good book/play. It invalidates so much of the original series out of convenience which is just lazy writing. Don’t even get me started on the obvious queerbaiting in here. I can’t deal with it.

In all these instances, the hype surrounding these books partly caused my disappointment in them. I think that if I hadn’t gone into these with high expectations, I would have enjoyed them more – aside from The Cursed Child. Have you read any of these books? Which books were negatively impacted by the hype for you? How can be battle the hype? Waiting for years to read the book clearly didn’t help me either, because that’s what I did with An Ember in the Ashes… I could use your tips!

Popular Books that Lived Up to the Hype | Top Ten Tuesday

Top Ten Tuesday is a weekly post hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl.

The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue (Montague Siblings #1) by Mackenzi Lee // I listened to the audiobook last year, and fell in love with this story and its characters. There was so much hype surrounding this book, but in my opinion it deserves all the praise. This took me on an emotional rollercoaster and I can’t wait to read the sequel this year. I would also recommend the audiobook, the narrator did a great job!

The Final Empire (Mistborn #1) by Brandon Sanderson // I picked this series up because of the hype on Booktube and on Reddit. Brandon Sanderson seems to be a universally loved fantasy author, and I couldn’t miss out on that. I’m so glad I picked these up. They’re honestly so good! I would’ve put Warbreaker on this list because I absolutely adored that one too but I feel like there’s so little hype surrounding Warbreaker compared to his other books.

The Secret History by Donna Tartt // This is quite the well-known book… I have to admit it intimidated me at first. Yet I had heard so many people talk about it and seen it in the ‘recommended’ section of so many bookstores, that I knew I had to at least try reading it. And while it took me a bit to get into the story, I ended up falling in love with it. I’m planning on re-reading it this year (or maybe in 2019).

The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet (Wayfarers #1) by Becky Chambers // I don’t think I would’ve picked this book up if it weren’t for the hype. I don’t read that much science fiction so I wouldn’t have grabbed it on my own. I’m so happy I did. The characters in this story are wonderful and I want to give them all a big hug. And the world! Highly recommend this book (and the sequel).

Six of Crows (Six of Crows #1) by Leigh Bardugo // The hype surrounding this duology is absolutely nuts. Yet so correct at the same time… This ended up being on of my favorite fantasy stories and one I’m sure I will re-read at some point. The amount of diversity in these 2 books is just fantastic.

The Lies of Locke Lamora (Gentleman Bastard #1) by Scott Lynch // I think there’s a lot of hype surrounding this book in the fantasy-communities on Reddit, Booktube and blogs. I also know a lot of people couldn’t get into it. Yet I adored it. Scott Lynch is a genius, and I am patiently waiting for the next book in the series.

The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms (Inheritance #1) by N.K. Jemisin // N.K. Jemisin is one of the most recommended fantasy authors, and for good reason. Although I struggled with the first chapter, I ended up flying through this book -and its sequel. If you haven’t read her works, what are you waiting for? I need to start her other series called The Broken Earth soon.

The Demon King (Seven Realms #1) by Cinda Williams Chima // This is one of the original hyped-up series. It’s such a staple! I only read it in 2016/2017 but I loved it nonetheless. It’s a fun YA fantasy with fantastic characters.

Assassin’s Apprentice (Farseer #1) by Robin Hobb // Another one of the most recommended fantasy authors! Robin Hobb’s Realm of the Elderlings spans several series, starting with the Farseer one. I was a bit intimidated by the series and this book at first. The series is very long, and the books are quite chunky too. Yet this trilogy is one of my favorites. It is a character-driven story instead of a plot-driven one though, so keep that in mind if you want to pick it up.

Uprooted by Naomi Novik // I haven’t talked about this book in such a long time! When Uprooted came out, every reviewer seemed to talk about it. Including me. And I was afraid I wouldn’t enjoy it or my expectations would be too high… I shouldn’t have worried because this book is fantastic. I can’t wait to read Spinning Silver.

Have you read any of these books? What did you think of them?