March Wrap Up

Hi everyone! It’s been a while, I know. I haven’t had the motivation or will to blog lately. And while there have been many things I’ve wanted to talk about, almost none of them were book related. Why? I haven’t been reading, to be honest. I read 1 book in March, and that’s only because I read 90% of it in February. 

I’ve been thinking of letting my blog transition to include more other things too -my personal life, music, TV, movies, anything I want to talk about really- but then I wonder how many of you would actually care about stuff like that. I mean, I assume the majority of you are here to read my book-related thoughts, right? Let me know! Anyway, let’s get into the wrap up. 

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Morning Star (Red Rising #3) by Pierce Brown // 5 stars // This is the only book I managed to read in March! I read the majority of it in February though. This was so good. Honestly, one of the best finales I’ve read in a while. I know that there are additional books in the series now, but this was originally meant to be the conclusion of the trilogy -which is why I’m calling it a finale. Pierce Brown is a genius. 

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Annihilation // I watched it! I know some people said it’s best to read all three books first because the movie contains more than just the first one but I didn’t want to wait. I wanted to watch it. This movie was SO GOOD! Honestly, much better than I expected it to be. I wasn’t quite sure how they would translate the book to the screen, because the book was already so weird. But they captured it perfectly. The visual effects of this movie are out of this world, and it makes me quite sad I couldn’t watch it in cinemas. I think the big screen would’ve done this more justice than our TV. I have to admit that for the last 15-20 minutes of this film, all that was going through my head was: “What the hell? What I am watching? Am I hallucinating? Is this real?” Worth it, though. 

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I also just started watching Because this is my first life. I’ve only watch 1.5 episodes so far (yes, I had to stop watching in the middle because I was too tired to concentrate on the subtitles), but I’m really enjoying it! 

I’ve also watched about 8 episodes of Idol Producer, which is a Chinese talent show (sort of) where 100 (or 101? can’t remember) trainees from different entertainment companies compete for 9 spots in a new music group. They get different challenges every week in dance, vocals and rap while trying to endear the public to them and their talent so people will vote. I quite enjoyed the episodes I watched and started to get attached to quite a few of them. Even though I did start watching for Zhang Yixing at first. If you’ve watched the Korean show Produce 101, it’s extremely similar to that but Chinese.

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NCT U – Boss

I fell in love with NCT this month. Especially NCT U to be honest. I think Boss might be the first NCT song I’ve listened to and I’m into it. (especially Taeyong)

NCT U – Baby Don’t Stop

After Boss came Baby Don’t Stop. And wow… If I didn’t already love Taeyong before, I fell for him now. And TEN! YES! Not only is he so talented (I love his voice in this song, and he’s an incredible dancer) but he also seems like the nicest person ever. 

MONSTA X – Jealousy

Monsta X is back and I couldn’t be happier. I think they are one of my absolute favorite groups. In fact, I.M may be a strong contender for my ultimate bias. And can we talk about the fact that their MV has subtitles in like 40 languages?? And about that ‘why are you talking about Shownu’ line that Wonho sings??

BLØF – Zoutelande

Living in Belgium or in The Netherlands means that you can’t escape this song at the moment. I never listen to the radio, and even I am bombarded with it. I’ve grown quite attached to it, to be honest. I feel like it’s quite calming. And I also find it quite funny that this song about Zoutelande has suddenly created a lot of tourists for this place!

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To be honest, I don’t know what March has meant for my personal life. I’ve had some really good days, and I got to see some of my uni friends again after quite a while. Those things definitely made me happy. But I have to be honest and say that I’ve been struggling a lot lately. I feel like it’s something I can’t quite talk about yet, but suffice it to say that I’ve been sad often. That’s why I haven’t read much, or watched any shows or movies. 

That was March for me! How was your month?
Did you read, watch or listen to anything fun? Let me know!

March Wrap Up

Books That Surprised Me | Top Ten Tuesday

Top Ten Tuesday is a meme hosted by The Artsy Reader Girl. Each week I will make a list of 10 books, authors or other bookish things surrounding a certain topic. Today, we’re talking about books that surprised us -in a good way!

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë // This book surprised me simply because I tend to have very low expectations when reading classics. I actually loved reading this though, and it’s one of my favorite classics I’ve read so far.

Red Rising (Red Rising #1) by Pierce Brown // This was a surprise because I don’t read much science fiction, and lately, not a lot of dystopian either. So I wasn’t sure how I’d feel about it. I was so pleasantly surprised… In fact, I’ve now finished the first trilogy! I loved all three books.

The Secret History by Donna Tartt // I had no idea what to expect here. I was afraid it would be a bit too pretentious at times, or that I wouldn’t understand anything. Or that it would take me ages to read. And even though it did take me a while to read, I fell in love with it along the way.

Red Sister (Book of the Ancestor #1) by Mark Lawrence // This is a book I saw mentioned often on r/fantasy and on some SFF-blogs but not many other bookish places. Which makes me sad, to be honest. Mark Lawrence is a really well-known fantasy author, but I had never read any of his work before. What a great introduction this one was! I immediately pre-ordered the sequel. 

If We Were Villains by M.L. Rio // I’ve only ever heard one BookTuber talk about this book (and I only noticed their video when I’d already read it). It’s one I picked up randomly in the library because it said ‘like Donna Tartt’s The Secret History’ on the cover. THIS IS SO GOOD. SO GOOD.

Nice Dragons Finish Last (Heartstrikers #1) by Rachel Aaron // I put this one as a surprise because I barely ever see anyone talk about this series -or this author, really. IT’s such a solid urban fantasy story though, and I want more people to read it. Like dragons? READ THIS.

Forbidden by Tabitha Suzuma // I was surprised by how much I like this because this is a novel about a brother and sister falling in love. That kind of makes me want to vomit, considering I also have an older brother and can’t even handle the thought. It makes me physically uncomfortable. And yet I ended up loving this book. It broke my heart.

Dreamer’s Pool (Blackthorn & Grim #1) by Juliet Marillier // I’m not actually sure why I feel like this book surprised me. It wasn’t the first Marillier book I read and loved, so I knew to expect a wonderful read. I guess it’s because I still don’t see her mentioned very often in the bookish communities I’m a part of, which makes me incredibly sad!

The Moon in the Palace (Empress of Bright Moon #1) by Weina Dai Randel // WHY do I never see this book mentioned anywhere? I really don’t understand! This is the first book in a duology of historical fiction novels set in China during the Tang dynasty (7th century AD), I believe. It follows Mei, who is a concubine at the palace, as she navigates life.

The Bone Witch (The Bone Witch #1) by Rin Chupeco // This was surprising to me because I received a review copy months before the release of this book. I didn’t really see any reviews before starting it so I sort of went into it blindly. I absolutely flew through this book! I couldn’t wait to gush about it. And then all the negative reviews started coming in, and I was devastated. This has become such an underrated book now. 

Well, those are 10 books that managed to surprise me! Have you read any of these? What did you think of them? Which books managed to surprise you?

Books That Surprised Me | Top Ten Tuesday

My Favorite Quotes | Top Ten Tuesday

Top Ten Tuesday is a meme hosted by The Artsy Reader Girl. Each week I will make a list of 10 books, authors or other bookish things surrounding a certain topic. Today, we’re talking about our favorite quotes. Let’s get started! 


“If you pull it, you accept that billions should live as slaves. Imagine all those unborn. If it is not me, someone else will rise. Ten years from now. Fifty. A thousand. We will break the chains, no matter the cost. You cannot stop us. We are the tide.

~ Golden Son (Red Rising #2) by Pierce Brown 

I rise into darkness, away from the garden they watered with the blood of my friends. 

Morning Star (Red Rising #3) by Pierce Brown

It is important, when killing a nun, to ensure that you bring an army of sufficient size. 

Red Sister (Book of the Ancestor #1) by Mark Lawrence

[talking about mental health awareness]
I can say, with some confidence, that it’s gone too far the other way. Because now mental health disorders have gone “mainstream”. And for all the good it’s brought people like me who have been given therapy and stuff, there’s a lot of bad it’s brought too. Because now people use the phrase OCD to describe minor personality quirks. “Oooh, I like my pens in a line, I’m so OCD.” 
“Oh my god, I was so nervous about that presentation, I literally had a panic attack.” 
“I’m so hormonal today. I  just feel totally bipolar.”

Am I Normal Yet? by Holly Bourne

I should have known better than to call upon the gods.

The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller


Had she really thought I would not know him? I could recognize him by touch alone, by smell, I would know him blind, by the way his breaths came and his feet struck the earth. I would know him in death, at the end of the world.

The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

“It’s not natural for women to fight.”
“It’s not natural for someone to be as stupid as he is tall, and yet there you stand.” 

Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo

He was as much a bully in death as he was in life, a giant who left behind not an empty space so much as a black hole, a huge crushing void that swallowed up all of our comforts, sooner or later.

~ If We Were Villains by M.L. Rio

“Mmm….she’s doomed! You’re doomed!! They’re all doomed! Notice I didn’t specify what kind of doom, so no matter what happens, I predicted it. How very WISE of me.” 

Eragon by Christopher Paolini

“Someday, Locke Lamora,” he said, “someday, you’re going to fuck up so magnificently, so ambitiously, so overwhelmingly that the sky will light up and the moons will spin and the gods themselves will shit comets with glee. And I just hope I’m still around to see it.”
“Oh please,” said Locke. “It’ll never happen.” 

The Lies of Locke Lamora by Scott Lynch

There you go, 10 of my favorite quotes and passages! Have you read any of these books? What are your favorite quotes?

My Favorite Quotes | Top Ten Tuesday

February Wrap Up | What I Read, Watched and Listened to (2018)

Can I be honest and say I’m glad February is over? I know it’s not a very long month, but it sure was a punch in the face…

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Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur // ★★.5 // I listened to the audio book of Milk and Honey at the start of the month. I had wanted to read it for ages, but I’m not very familiar with reading poetry. So I figured listening to Rupi Kaur read her own poems was the perfect way to go. And I would recommend the audiobook. I was just sort of indifferent about the poetry itself. I guess it just wasn’t for me. I know that her poems will resonate with a lot of other people, which is why I didn’t want to give it a lower rating. It just didn’t with me. 

Simon vs the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli // Re-read // ★★★★★ // A re-read! I first read this book in 2015 and absolutely loved it. It’s been a few years now, and the movie adaptation is almost here. I wanted to re-read this before watching the movie in June, and reading the new companion novel Leah on the Offbeat this year. I’m so glad I did, because I’d forgotten so much already! Still loved it though. 

Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie // ★★★★ // I saw a copy of this at the library, so decided to take it with me. As you can see from the cover, I read the Dutch translation. I think this is a great little book, and wonderful as a (starter) guide to feminism. Do I think that there are many things left out? Yes. I would like to read more about trans women, LGBT+ women and toxic masculinity too. But this is a great place to start already; to listen to women’s experiences outside of Western Europe/North-America.

That’s all I read… I know, I didn’t read much in February. Dear Ijeawele is such a short book, and so is Milk and Honey. Like I said, February was a kick in the face at times and I just didn’t have the energy to read.

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Raw (2016) // Original title: Grave // ★★★★ // First, I’d like to thank Inge for getting me through this movie. This movie is unlike anything I’ve ever seen. It’s a French-Belgian film called Grave (the french word, not the English one…) about a girl who goes to vet school. She’s been a vegetarian her entire life, until she’s forced to eat raw rabbit liver (or something like that) during initiation. Shit spirals out of control afterwards. DO NOT watch this movie while eating. SERIOUSLY, DON’T. 

Lucifer // I watched the first 8 episodes of Lucifer season 3 this month! I’m slowly catching up. Emphasis on slowly.

Dark // I watched the first episode of the German Netflix show called Dark. It was creepy and weird, and I’m definitely going to continue the series. 

Altered Carbon // I also watched the first episode of Altered Carbon. To be completely honest, I forgot I even watched this before writing this post. Yet I still enjoyed it, and would continue watching? I think it’s too soon to say whether I’m into it. It’s one of those shows that will take me a while to get into. 

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This song… SEVENTEEN has become one of my favorite K-pop groups now. Maybe even my ultimate favorite? I’m just in awe of them. They’re all so talented: producing their own music, raps, choreography, etc… They get visibly better and better with every comeback, and this is no exception. I would also really recommend watching the choreography version of this. Their choreo is insane. 

The Rose – Sorry

I discovered The Rose through DAY6 (who were in last month’s wrap up), and then noticed they were holding a concert in Belgium in February! I was so excited. I think they were the first K-pop group to really hold a concert in Belgium? At least, to my knowledge. So I went to see them live, and it was absolutely fantastic. They are so talented, and were so happy to see the crowd of fans! It was adorable.

Stray Kids – Hellevator

I’ve been listening to this song for about a week, I think. I really like its flow, and it always manages to put me in a productive mood. I believe they wrote this song about their life as trainees, which makes me really sad for all the idols and the terrible and hard times they must have gone through.

Pentatonix – Havana

If there’s a new PTX song, you just know it’s going to be on my list. I LOVE THIS. I don’t like Mich’s mustache, but okay. Their songs are always on point. A warm welcome to Matt, the new PTX member!

February Wrap Up | What I Read, Watched and Listened to (2018)

Top Ten Tuesday: Books I Could Re-Read Forever

Top Ten Tuesday is a meme hosted by The Artsy Reader Girl. Each week I will make a list of 10 books, authors or other bookish things surrounding a certain topic. Today, we’re talking about books we could re-read forever. This is basically going to be a collection of my favorites, so let’s get started.

Harry Potter by J.K. Rowling // Yes, this is obviously on my list. Despite what Rowling is saying on Twitter and the fact that I’m sick and tired of her wanting credit for diverse characters she never wrote, I still love this series. It is my childhood, and it has shaped a part of me to this day. 

Written in Red (The Others #1) by Anne Bishop // I only discovered this series 5 years ago or so, but I’ve read it multiple times since. Especially the first book! I just love it so much. 

Eragon (Inheritance Cycle #1) by Christopher Paolini // Another childhood fave. This one is a nostalgic read for me! While I do see the flaws within the first book (especially the writing since he was still a teenager) the last 2 books always manage to blow me away. Something I particularly love here is the depiction of religion and vegetarianism.

The Secret History by Donna Tartt // I haven’t re-read this yet! I read it for the first time in 2016, I believe, and it absolutely blew my mind. I’ve been dying to re-read it since but it just seems like a bit of a commitment at the moment.

Six of Crows (Six of Crows #1) by Leigh Bardugo // Another one I haven’t actually re-read yet, but definitely plan on doing in the future! I have so much love for these characters.

The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah // This is one of my all-time favorite books. Once again, I haven’t re-read it yet… I definitely will though. I just made my mom buy a Dutch copy of this book when we saw it on sale because I just need everyone to read this book.

The Lies of Locke Lamora (Gentleman Bastard #1) by Scott Lynch // This is a series I will re-read before the next book will be released. I have no idea when that will be, because Lynch is currently focusing on his mental health (as he should!!). I feel like I will gain so much more from this book upon re-reading it though, as the plot is so intricate. 

The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller // Listen. I have read this book twice. I have cried twice. I will re-read this book for the rest of my life, and cry every single time. 

The Upside of Unrequited by Becky Albertalli // This one I will re-read forever, because Molly just resonates with me. I recognize so much of myself in her! 

Quiet by Susan Cain // This book means so much to me. It started my journey of self-love, and accepting who I am. An introvert. That sounds so easy to most of you. To me, it wasn’t -and especially not in university.

Those are 10 of the books I will probably be re-reading for the rest of my life. Have you read any of these? Which books are on your list?

Top Ten Tuesday: Books I Could Re-Read Forever

A Very Late Top Ten Tuesday: Books I’m No Longer Interested in Reading

Top Ten Tuesday is a meme hosted by The Artsy Reader Girl. Each week I will make a list of 10 books, authors or other bookish things surrounding a certain topic. Today, we’re talking about books we’re no longer interested in reading. 

I’ve been reading for a long time. I’ve been blogging for over 3 years now, and have been active in the bookish community far longer than that. So there are plenty of books I was once interested in reading, but simply don’t care about anymore. I have definitely changed over those past few years, and so have my reading tastes. This is  not an attack on the authors! 


All the Crooked Saints by Maggie Stiefvater // I know, a Maggie Stiefvater book on this list? Insane. I love her Raven Cycle, and this is certainly not an attack on her. I just don’t really have an interest in this book? 

Empire of Storms (Throne of Glass #5) by Sarah J. Maas // I am giving up on this series -and most likely this author. I haven’t read one of her books since Queen of Shadows (in 2015?) and have just lost all interest at this point.

By Your Side by Kasie West // I was really excited at first, because a romance about two people locked in a library for a weekend? Sounds absolutely epic. But then I saw all these reviews about how not even half of this book actually takes place in the library? Well, it lost all its appeal there.

P.S. I Still Love You by Jennie Han // I adored the first book, To all the boys I’ve loved before, so much. And I couldn’t deal with the ending. But I tried to read this book and just couldn’t get into it. At this point I’m going to make up a happy ending in my mind and go with that. 

After You by Jojo Moyes // I absolutely loved Me Before You when I first read it a few years ago. Now, I’m much more aware of how troubling the disability representation in that novel is. I don’t like the message it spreads, even though I didn’t comprehend that when reading it the first time. Aside from feeling uncomfortable with the story due to this problematic part of it, I’m also not very interested in seeing what happens next? I’d much rather believe Lou went on to do great things that inspire her every day. 


Easy by Tammara Webber // When I first started watching BookTube videos, this was always recommended as the best new adult book. It’s been absolute years since, and I still haven’t read it. I don’t much feel like ever reading it either. 

Red Queen by Victoria Aveyard // To be honest, this sounds like every other YA dystopian/fantasy book. Maybe it isn’t, and I’m being to harsh. But I just don’t care to find out either way.

We Were Liars by E. Lockhart // I waited too long with this one. Again, I saw this being hyped up on BookTube when it was first released. And even after all these years, I’ve managed to avoid spoilers. But I just don’t find myself interested enough in this book and the mystery in it to actually pick it up? 

Ender’s Game by Orson Scott Card // I watched the movie adaptation. I have no idea how accurate the movie adaptation was with regards to the book, but I can’t be bothered to find out. I really liked the movie, so it’s not like I hate the story. Yet the big twist has already been revealed, right? 

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert // Am I the only one who has zero interest in reading this book? It sounds like some posh version of ‘I found myself by traveling the world’. Not that you can’t go out and do that! I just don’t want to read a book about it. Something about the title really rubs me the wrong way too. I’ve also never seen the movie, and I don’t want to. 

That was my very late Top Ten Tuesday post! Have you read any of these books? Do you disagree with my choices? Let me know!

A Very Late Top Ten Tuesday: Books I’m No Longer Interested in Reading

Top Ten Tuesday: Slow-Burn Romances

Top Ten Tuesday is a meme hosted by The Artsy Reader Girl. Each week I will make a list of 10 books, authors or other bookish things surrounding a certain topic. Today, I chose to talk about some of my favorite slow-burn romances. Slow burn relationships are some of my absolute favorite ones, because it makes the relationship more adorable to me. Sort of like a best friends to lovers, you know? Yes, please.

Simon & Meg // The Others by Anne Bishop // These are the first two that come to mind when I thought of this topic. In a way, they may have inspired it actually. I just adore these two so much. How considerate they are of each other, how careful with boundaries, how adorable… I only wish they knew how to communicate a tad better -and faster. 

Percy & Monty // The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue by Mackenzi Lee // LOVE these two. I know that this is only one book, but I still think it fits the topic because they have been best friends for years. We may not have been present for their entire journey of the relationship but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t present. 

Achilles & Patroclus // The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller // Childhood friends to lovers. I mention this book so often, I really don’t think I have anything else to say.

Magnus & Alex // Magnus Chase by Rick Riordan // A recent addition! I love these two, they’re absolutely adorable. Magnus always gets so shy around Alex. They’re also quite considerate of the other and not afraid to speak up. Adore them.

Sorcha & Hugh // Daughter of the Forest by Juliet Marillier // I don’t talk about this book often, but everyone should read it. These two are just… wonderful. Sorcha is going through so much, all while being unable to speak. Hugh gives her time and space to heal, while growing to care for the little, silent woman full of determination. 

Simon & Baz // Carry On by Rainbow Rowell // I need to re-read this book. I just bought my own physical copy which means it’s time. I fell in love with these two when I first read this book. Enemies to lovers? Yes. I usually hate the word ‘lover’ but somehow it seems fitting when talking about romance tropes. 

Blue & Gansey // The Raven Boys by Maggie Stiefvater // I live for Gansey and Blue. There’s so much angst and longing with these two. Usually, I’m not a fan of angst because it mostly comes from miscommunication but that’s not the case here. Apparently, I can actually love angst!

Gwen & Royce // The Riyria Chronicles by Michael J. Sullivan // Honestly, I adore Royce and Gwen. I adore how they truly know each other, both the good and terrible. The love and acceptance between them is so wonderful. I love how Gwen is basically a goddess in Royce’s eyes, and how Gwen is the kindest and most patient person who is always ready to help people others look down on. 

Arya & Eragon // The Inheritance Cycle by Christopher Paolini // I’m still kind of upset about this one. If you’ve read the books, talk to me! I want to talk about these two!

Oree & Shiny // The Broken Kingdoms (Inheritance #2) by N.K. Jemisin // While these two wouldn’t necessarily feature on my favorite romances ever list, I do love them together. And I love the fact that Oree nicknamed him Shiny. 

That’s it: 10 of my favorite slow-burn romances. Do you like slow romances? Which ones are your favorite?



Top Ten Tuesday: Slow-Burn Romances